Family drama is at an all-time high.  social media, need to find a way to reconnect, establish what leadership looks like in their home regardless of what it looks like in the Jones' house. You can't outsource your own success, can't make schools and youth groups responsible for leadership in their family. 
 
Leadership starts in the home and it starts at the top. what you model will get done.  the actions you 
 
Have to have a process, define leadership, get on the same page, everyone who's trying to lead, spouse etc. have to be working on the same page. 
 
Begin to train and model the steps to leadership.